Is There Such A Thing As A Bi/Gay Late Bloomer?

You think you're a man,
You are only a boy.
You think you're a man
You are only a toy.
You think you're a man
But you just couldn't see
You weren't man enough to satisfy me.

The Vaselines



Definition

A late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop. The term is used metaphorically to describe a child or adolescent who develops more slowly than others in their age group, but eventually catches up and in some cases overtakes their peers, or an adult whose talent or genius in a particular field only appears later in life than is normal - in some cases only in old age.

Let's try altering the definition making it gay-related. =)

A gay late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop in matters of homosexual attraction, caused by pressures from social peers, family orientation, professional reasons, religious involvement, sexual and cultural innuendos, and etc.

The following are the typical character traits of a gay late bloomer:

1. A guy who longed for several years touching another man's dick.

2. A guy who's contented by looking at his neighbor's dong in a urinal.

3. He thought that his high school English essay of raising his own family, fuck a girl or raise his own children was put to waste is only a big fat lie to himself.

4. A guy who was sexually abused in his grade school years by the same gender and still couldn't forget that it wasn't just a trauma but a contributing factor as well for being gay eventually.

5. A guy who felt something different whenever he sees a naked guy in a magazine or in the environment.

6. A guy whose eyes are more focused on a guy's dick than staring at a girl's pussy in a porn film.

7. A guy who's been denying for eons of years that he's not gay and will never ever be.

8. A guy who's homophobic and eludes his way from screaming fags and transvestites or transexuals.

9. A guy who married a woman nor raised his own children but suddenly met a guy and changed his sexual orientation totally.

10. A guy who gets furiously mad when teased as a faggot.

11. A guy who confided and realized one day that he's different.

12. A guy who gives you a million excuses by not partaking into cultural endeavors, yet artistically inclined and is very talented.

13. A guy who dated another guy with some private intimacy.

14. Suddenly realized that he can dance with the music of Cher or Lady Gaga.

15. You visualize from time to time if your favorite actor looks great when naked.

16. Sometimes fantasizes that you are Wonder Woman nor as sexy as Poison Ivy.

17. He's 30 years old and above already and still single? (though this age bracket may still vary)

18. You are vain. Cosmetically.

19. You know by heart the top designer brands and loves them.

20. You got curious about ManJam, Planet Romeo or Gay.com.

A late blooming adult is a person who does not discover their talents and abilities until later than normally expected. In certain cases retirement may lead to this discovery.

There are many theories of the way in which people develop proposed by authorities such as Urie Bronfenbrenner, Jerome Bruner, Erik Erikson, Jerome Kagan, Lawrence Kohlberg, Jean Piaget and Lev Vygotsky.

These may be referring to late bloomers for heterosexuals, but the hounding questions are...

What makes a heterosexual being gay eventually?

What are the causes or factors for being a homosexual?

My answer to this...

What are the causes and factors for being a heterosexual???

You don't get it?

I don't as well. =)

The Lures and Downsides of Threesomes and Orgies (Philippine Setting)

When a gay guy reaches his maturity in matters of sexcapades, invitations such as these makes him reflect a lot more, if he will let himself succumb nor feel weak to these kind of temptations.

The thought of engaging in a multitude of moaning men around you is just a terrific sight and makes our senses both external and internal tumble in excitement to join.

The following scenes are expected realities that happens in threesomes and orgies:

1. Do expect that in threesomes and orgies you will meet guys with body odors.

If you are VERY particular about smells -- the sulfuric breath of a gay swinger, the stinking armpit or anus, then a group sex is not for you. The stinking smells and exchange of saliva among mouths and dicks are expected.

2. Do expect that a participant in a group sex will surely be choosy. Most especially if you're not possessing a pretty face or a delicious body.

Don't feel bad if a guy suddenly rejects you. Just think that you're still lucky because you were invited. LOL. Just enjoy the sight then and be contented in jacking yourself off. LOL.

3. Do be careful of your valuables. Not all organizers of orgies are particular with safety.

BE MINDFUL that some gay guys REALLY ORGANIZE CRIMES or invite you just to be robbed. Since your flesh is weak, you end yourself as a victim by losing your valuables. SO THINK AGAIN!

4. High profile orgy organizers DO SCREEN participants.

They may involve gay actors, elite members of the society and politicians that would pay the price for your safety and discretion as well. If you squeal... then there's a great chance of losing your reputation and life in return very soon! Don't get yourself get involved in a local gay mafia. HOW TO JOIN? YOU MUST BE EXTRAORDINARILY BEAUTIFUL TO BE RECRUITED!

5. Small time orgy organizers WILL REQUIRE MINIMUM CREDENTIALS:

a. No to Effeminates. Keep on wishing. LOL
b. Be average looking at least.
c. A huge cock is a plus factor.
d. A Minimal Joining Fee - for your drinks or room rentals and whatsoever.
e. Indicate your bed role. - Top, Bottom or Versa.

6. Expect that in a threesome, there is a usual loser.

You are left behind if you are less attractive or not  great in bed.

7. Don't believe that if a couple invites you claiming that the couple is just a couple. They may be long time partners in a relationship, who's just exploring things with you to remove their boredom TEMPORARILY. Try to sense some air of jealousy in this case. And be careful, because you might spark a fight between the two. LOL.

8. Protect yourself no matter how handsome and delicious the guys are. Gay guys who  HAS THE MONEY and LOOKS ARE THE USUAL DISEASE CARRIERS since they have the ways and means most of the time.

Be health conscious. How many guys I've learned that they contracted those deadly diseases through orgies from both known and unknown guys??? From the prominent men in the society and elite gay circles. But of course, they could afford to travel around the world among the best gay capitals and bath houses of the world and ready to transfer their weird microorganisms with you. You can't monitor who transferred you the disease. Everyone fucked you. You sucked all of them. Now you regret after???

Go ahead guys, try it ONCE or NEVER after reading this article of mine. CURIOSITY USUALLY KILLS THE CAT. =)

SELF-DISCIPLINE and SELF-CONTROL is the ultimate key and wisdom for you here.