Is There Such A Thing As A Bi/Gay Late Bloomer?

You think you're a man,
You are only a boy.
You think you're a man
You are only a toy.
You think you're a man
But you just couldn't see
You weren't man enough to satisfy me.

The Vaselines



Definition

A late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop. The term is used metaphorically to describe a child or adolescent who develops more slowly than others in their age group, but eventually catches up and in some cases overtakes their peers, or an adult whose talent or genius in a particular field only appears later in life than is normal - in some cases only in old age.

Let's try altering the definition making it gay-related. =)

A gay late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop in matters of homosexual attraction, caused by pressures from social peers, family orientation, professional reasons, religious involvement, sexual and cultural innuendos, and etc.

The following are the typical character traits of a gay late bloomer:

1. A guy who longed for several years touching another man's dick.

2. A guy who's contented by looking at his neighbor's dong in a urinal.

3. He thought that his high school English essay of raising his own family, fuck a girl or raise his own children was put to waste is only a big fat lie to himself.

4. A guy who was sexually abused in his grade school years by the same gender and still couldn't forget that it wasn't just a trauma but a contributing factor as well for being gay eventually.

5. A guy who felt something different whenever he sees a naked guy in a magazine or in the environment.

6. A guy whose eyes are more focused on a guy's dick than staring at a girl's pussy in a porn film.

7. A guy who's been denying for eons of years that he's not gay and will never ever be.

8. A guy who's homophobic and eludes his way from screaming fags and transvestites or transexuals.

9. A guy who married a woman nor raised his own children but suddenly met a guy and changed his sexual orientation totally.

10. A guy who gets furiously mad when teased as a faggot.

11. A guy who confided and realized one day that he's different.

12. A guy who gives you a million excuses by not partaking into cultural endeavors, yet artistically inclined and is very talented.

13. A guy who dated another guy with some private intimacy.

14. Suddenly realized that he can dance with the music of Cher or Lady Gaga.

15. You visualize from time to time if your favorite actor looks great when naked.

16. Sometimes fantasizes that you are Wonder Woman nor as sexy as Poison Ivy.

17. He's 30 years old and above already and still single? (though this age bracket may still vary)

18. You are vain. Cosmetically.

19. You know by heart the top designer brands and loves them.

20. You got curious about ManJam, Planet Romeo or Gay.com.

A late blooming adult is a person who does not discover their talents and abilities until later than normally expected. In certain cases retirement may lead to this discovery.

There are many theories of the way in which people develop proposed by authorities such as Urie Bronfenbrenner, Jerome Bruner, Erik Erikson, Jerome Kagan, Lawrence Kohlberg, Jean Piaget and Lev Vygotsky.

These may be referring to late bloomers for heterosexuals, but the hounding questions are...

What makes a heterosexual being gay eventually?

What are the causes or factors for being a homosexual?

My answer to this...

What are the causes and factors for being a heterosexual???

You don't get it?

I don't as well. =)