The Continuation...
4. Check Your Age Gap
I remember a lesson from my Psychology professor that a harmonious relationship will arise, be it among heteros or homos that will likely to be successful ONLY, if the range of your age gap falls within 5 years. Regardless that he or she is younger or older than you as long as the range falls within 5.
This would mean that the harmony of your likes and dislikes among things or tastes in clothing, music, food, movie, etc. would be narrower and acceptable for you to stay attracted or in-love longer than expected.
So... if you are 40 and your partner is only 18? It wont really last. This is due to the wide age gap that I was telling you. Just imagine, could you still dig the kind of clothes he wears or bars that the 18 year old love to cruise? The mature guy could understand the situation for the time being ONLY.
5. Establish Your Standards As Minimal As Possible
Who wouldn't fall nor get attracted with a very handsome creature? Who wouldn't want to acquire a partner who's got a lovely face nor a body moulded from a Greek god?
Some put on their profiles wanting a guy who's mentally gifted. Does that mean you're dumb? lolz
I know... there are times that we seek for partners with qualities that are not present among ourselves. You seek for an idol, you tend to fill an empty vacuum in your personality. Some are successful in finding one but mostly a failure.
I admit. I admire guys who are intelligent with numbers nor algebraic expressions even with radicals or calculus because these subjects are my waterloos and I feel so impatient in computations. But, I can discuss anything under the sun except Math ha ha. I'd rather fight pound for pound if you ask me to analyze nor compute. lolz
Like I've said in one of my articles here, when you are in love, standards don't matter. Our hearts don't think, they only feel.
6. Seek A Partner Only That Is Physically Suitable For You
Look at yourself again. Are you as handsome as him? Are you a head-turner too? If not, go get an average guy only. You want your eyes flooding in tears most of the time because you feel so insecure? You feel that this "cute" guy is enjoying your company ONLY because you treat him ALL THE TIME?
7. Do You Have Work Or A Stable Job?
Dating involves money. Gift-giving entails money. Dining nor eating in a fast food entails cost no matter how cheap as long as it's clean and edible. Sustaining a relationship involves money. You two don't have a place for your sex bout? Get ready with a less than a thousand bucks for a motel room. Yup, relationships reciprocates financial investments too.
8. Have You Decided To Be Gay For The Rest Of Your Life?
If you are seeking nor dreaming of a relationship to last longer, then start asking yourself if you can handle tough situations in a homosexual love. If you are just experimenting on the feeling of a homo love then you could be quite unfair to someone who's really into a gay serious relationship.
9. How Open Are You with Your Family and Friends?
This could be another tough issue if the partner you are seeking has personality problems with himself. If you are effeminate? It is less likely that you could get a partner that has no traces of homosexuality.
I admire gay couples that has no qualms anymore holding hands in public nor both of them are swaying their hips while walking or running.
I remember a lesson from my Psychology professor that a harmonious relationship will arise, be it among heteros or homos that will likely to be successful ONLY, if the range of your age gap falls within 5 years. Regardless that he or she is younger or older than you as long as the range falls within 5.
This would mean that the harmony of your likes and dislikes among things or tastes in clothing, music, food, movie, etc. would be narrower and acceptable for you to stay attracted or in-love longer than expected.
So... if you are 40 and your partner is only 18? It wont really last. This is due to the wide age gap that I was telling you. Just imagine, could you still dig the kind of clothes he wears or bars that the 18 year old love to cruise? The mature guy could understand the situation for the time being ONLY.
5. Establish Your Standards As Minimal As Possible
Who wouldn't fall nor get attracted with a very handsome creature? Who wouldn't want to acquire a partner who's got a lovely face nor a body moulded from a Greek god?
Some put on their profiles wanting a guy who's mentally gifted. Does that mean you're dumb? lolz
I know... there are times that we seek for partners with qualities that are not present among ourselves. You seek for an idol, you tend to fill an empty vacuum in your personality. Some are successful in finding one but mostly a failure.
I admit. I admire guys who are intelligent with numbers nor algebraic expressions even with radicals or calculus because these subjects are my waterloos and I feel so impatient in computations. But, I can discuss anything under the sun except Math ha ha. I'd rather fight pound for pound if you ask me to analyze nor compute. lolz
Like I've said in one of my articles here, when you are in love, standards don't matter. Our hearts don't think, they only feel.
6. Seek A Partner Only That Is Physically Suitable For You
Look at yourself again. Are you as handsome as him? Are you a head-turner too? If not, go get an average guy only. You want your eyes flooding in tears most of the time because you feel so insecure? You feel that this "cute" guy is enjoying your company ONLY because you treat him ALL THE TIME?
7. Do You Have Work Or A Stable Job?
Dating involves money. Gift-giving entails money. Dining nor eating in a fast food entails cost no matter how cheap as long as it's clean and edible. Sustaining a relationship involves money. You two don't have a place for your sex bout? Get ready with a less than a thousand bucks for a motel room. Yup, relationships reciprocates financial investments too.
8. Have You Decided To Be Gay For The Rest Of Your Life?
If you are seeking nor dreaming of a relationship to last longer, then start asking yourself if you can handle tough situations in a homosexual love. If you are just experimenting on the feeling of a homo love then you could be quite unfair to someone who's really into a gay serious relationship.
9. How Open Are You with Your Family and Friends?
This could be another tough issue if the partner you are seeking has personality problems with himself. If you are effeminate? It is less likely that you could get a partner that has no traces of homosexuality.
I admire gay couples that has no qualms anymore holding hands in public nor both of them are swaying their hips while walking or running.
If you still have personal issues with your bi or gay reputation among your family members nor with officemates and friends? I don't think you could be happy for a longer period of time with your partner.
10. Check Your Body Language and Mannerisms
How do you speak or converse with your crush? Does your eyes roll everytime you utter a word? How do you walk? How do you dress? Would you like to have a partner who's girlier than you? lolz
This talks about personal preferences. Did you notice some guys wanting to talk with you first on the phone to test how you speak before the meet up or sex bout? This could be the second step after assessing your dashing pictures to validate your level of homosexual tendencies.
So where do you find your ideal partner then? Believe me. They are EVERYWHERE. It is only a matter of time and luck. Though you may agree with me that a serious partner can't be found in a bar or in a bath house or in some gay network sites. You could give each other a chance, but be wary of course. Perform some rain checks first always!
You have noticed that your crush is away from the site momentarily because he found someone special. This doesn't mean that you aren't special as well. Perhaps, the guy he met has more suitable credentials that you do, FOR NOW and this could be for some physical or professional reasons.
Go ahead fall in love, don't avoid. When you fall, get ready to feel that hurt at the same time. You always learn from experiences and mistakes is it not? That'll make you wiser next time around.
We are in an imperfect world and so are you.
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