Before the heydays of Yahoo Messenger and MIRC chat rooms, It made me wonder why people resort to online conversations.
The dawn of the INTERNET made the connection with people at a snap of a finger.
For first time chatters, experience could be fun if they know how to chat or could be a nightmare if they only reply with HIs or HELLOs.
I give you basic tips to nail down your chatmates for your bed later. =)
DON'T
1. Start Your Conversation With ASL Or NASL
This one could make or break a conversation depending on the mood of your chatmate. His willingness to share with you his location is fine, at times your chatmate isn't convenient of giving out his exact location or NAME at once. So be sensitive first.
2. Type... SEB?
Sex Eyeballs at the start of the conversation shows some desperation already. You seem so in a hurry to find a sex partner. Probably, he's just chatting in an INTERNET Cafe or he's about to leave or his time is up already. Have some fake decency first. LOL
3. Type Rude Comments About His Pictures or Profile
Come on! Be polite please. There are a lot of examples to say unpleasant things in a very nice way. If you think that he fooled you because you found out he's just a freakin poser? Just put a smiley on the chat box then leave or ignore. No need to type that he's a loser or a fuckin poser only. Who knows? He might be much better than the picture you see and testing you only.
4. Be Judgmental For The Very First Time
Your chatmate might be very frank only with his replies to you, but this doesn't mean he's a rude person already for the rest of his life.
5. Be Overly Sensitive
If you were reared by your parents as a cry baby, then the chatroom is not for you. Gays out there are mostly rude and competing like hell with one another just for some cheap hook ups. Your cultural orientation must be checked to understand the different kinds of races and individual differences.
6. Offer Your Webcam View At First If You Are Showing Your Face At Once
The proliferation of free software in the net to capture videos and images of you is no longer a passe. Worse if you are viewed jerking off with your face. Don't be surprised that your video can be seen at some porn sites and blogsites already and viewers feasting on your scandal. Know the person first or chat for a longer period if possible.
FACT. Guys who record you show their webcams as well. The only difference is... YOU ARE RECORDED BY THEM! And why would they tell you that you are recorded? So think again.
Engage in cam to cam only if you know him already or LOSE YOUR REPUTATION!
7. Brag Your Credentials If Not Asked
So what? Are you trying hard to sell yourself? You think you are the most beautiful or intelligent person he'd chat with? For all he cares.
8. Engage In Chatting If You Are Indeed Busy
Regardless if you are chatting with multiple chatmates since you are popular, but do try to reply to your chatmate once in a while and say excuse me or sorry for being delayed.
9. Quit Promptly Or Leave Your Chats Unless You Are Disconnected.
This act is very, very rude. YOU JUST SIMPLY LEAVE AN IMPRESSION that you are UNEDUCATED and STUPID at the same time. Learn how to say goodbye or excuses in a nice way. Don't leave an impression that you're just "another" guy unworthy of their time.
10. If You Are In A Bad Mood
This will be reflected in every word you type. Sending negativities to your chatmate.
DO
1. Be Cheerful At First
Say a nice joke, phrase, quote or a very short story or topic as an ice breaker.
2. Be Respectful And Polite
You might never know that your chatmate is highly educated than you. Regardless of his pictures or nasty shout outs in the chat room.
3. Praise Your Chatmate If You Read Or Saw Something Nice About Them.
Do this in a natural way.
4. Ask Necessary Things At First Only.
Be very discreet please. Every word you type for a new stranger might make or break your chat with him. REMEMBER THAT WORDS TYPED IN A CHATROOM DOESN'T EXPRESS EMOTIONS unlike when you are in a face to face chat. A smiley to add can help you with this.
5. Respond To Every Pertinent Question He Raises Before Raising A New Topic
It annoys me when a chatmate is showering me with questions ala FBI style.
Tell him direct that you will reply to his queries one at a time only and you expect to have the same information as well from him.
6. Be Attentive
You may have an idea when your chatmate is chatting with someone else or if he's busy by not replying to you quickly.
7. Be Professional
Regardless if you are chatting with someone who finished his grade school or high school only, This doesn't make you a person much better than him. Attitude and character counts more than a guy who is much schooled like you do. Be educated, not just learned.
8. Stop Being A Bitch
This is already given in the homosexual world. This can be best explained psychologically why it happens.
9. Be Culturally Aware
Every race or color of skin varies when it comes to conversations as well. Be careful in every comment you post or you might offend someone. If he raised the topic first then it's an opportune time for you to discuss.
10. Be Bubbly and A Positive Thinker
Even if it's only a chat. Your happy mood can be felt by your chatmate.
There are many more reasons that you can add in here. Some can be ridiculous or funny. But there are only two ways for you to be successful all the time. BE HAPPY and FRIENDLY. =)
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