The Usual Turn Offs In A Gay Profile

Aren't you wondering why some gay guys only take a peek on your profile without dropping a Hi or Hello?

You might not be aware, but the following are the usual blunders for having very few visitors on your profile. The lesser count would mean no repeat viewers, unless your profile is full of galleries filled with nude pictures not necessarily yours.

I could say that most gay guys are usually intelligent. Some are really reading the contents of your profile. Be careful with what you write and post, for this one surely reflects the kind of person you are.

It is true that you cannot please everybody because everyone has their own set of standards that could either be realistic or just plain foolishness.

Here are more tips for you to revise and revitalize your gay profiles:

1. If you project yourself as a macho gay guy, then don't post pictures that refers or would resort to your girly inclinations. Don't end up having that reputation as a poser or a liar.

i.e. your skimpy, girly, very colorful and flowery undies; your background pictures with girly tendencies.

Ikaw na ang macho!

2. Avoid posting your butt pics if you declare yourself as a PURE TOP!

Simple thing... Pure Tops are lured by butts and ass pictures, studying the possibilities on how to enter your butthole when negotiations are made. Any gay guy who would stare at your profile would simply say... Etchosera tong baklang ito. Top daw sya? Magtigil!

3. I'm not gay, I'm STRAIGHT! is written and declared on their profiles

Talaga lang? Hindi nga? Kelan pa?

4. I Am Bi. Period.

How come that you are present daily on gay network sites that you are a member? How come that the pictures found on your profile are mostly men and no pussy shots can be seen? Ganyan pala ang BI?

5. Be careful on your choice of sexual positions

If you click the wrong button saying that you are either Top or Bottom or a Versa, don't blame your viewers if they invite you wrongly because it is your fault.


6. Does everyone knows the difference between a Versa Top or a Versa Bottom? I don't see much difference here. You are plain Versatile. Period. You fuck and can be fucked! And then  when you start chatting you say you are a Pure Top? Oh come on!

7. No pictures can be seen.

Fine. You are the most discreet member like what you declare and believe, and thus, you can't post pics. You are making it hard for yourself to find a friend or a sex buddy. You are just another frustration for a viewer. I am not encouraging you to post a picture which isn't yours. Put a pic of your arm or your crotch at least if you are too scared of your reputation. But don't post pics that aren't yours!

8. Profile is 0% BLANK

Who would dare looking at your profile again? Your Viewers can't buy much of your intelligent words written. A picture can launch a thousand impressions from your viewers.

9. Profile is Seen with Picturesque Views Only.

Are you a tour guide? How could you make love or have sex with those beautiful mountains and rivers? You wanna impress your viewers that you have visited those places? What for?

10.  Check your Grammar

You project yourself as an intelligent being, but look at your style of writing. You're just another laughing stuff and pretender. Don't go overboard if you can't justify yourself. Write in a language only where you are very comfortable and not necessarily an expert.

11. You claim that you have a huge dick

A 5 inch long phallus is already huge for you? Shame on you.

12. You claim that you are rich

Why is it that we see ordinary brands that you wear only? Why is it that the backgrounds of your pictures are from a filthy room or dilapidated walls and roofs? Your room displays are buy one take ones. Ordinary and ready-made curtains, plastic chairs and ordinary plastic monoblocks?

13. You're a world class traveler

How come we only see one country? What is so prestigious living in that particular country as an OFW? I demand... world class traveler definition should be.

14. Your profile shout out is the total opposite of your claims.

You are looking for some relationship but the gallery of your pictures were taken from your orgy sessions! Wrong move.

15. Your profile shout out sends out negative vibes at once such as:

a. No effems please (because you are otherwise?)

b. Gym Fit only (but are you STD free?)

c. Guys 30 plus above only (but the young ones wont stop seeking for you also)

d. I want guys of my same age (create your own gay network site then)

e. I want people who talks with sense only (then his profile shout out says SEX now!)

f. I am handsome and cute and so you MUST BE (Where's the proof? Is this indeed you? How come I don't see a cute face here? So that's how you define a handsome face really? Hmmm...POSER?)

g. I want Sex on Phone Only! (no offense, but isn't it that guys who has beautiful voices are usually... There, I offended you now. lol)

h. Add me on FB

For some, the real personal profile on FB is quite exclusive and for professional use only for common, good and trusted friends alone. The lewd pictures that you upload in FB once reported by a fellow member can lead to a forever ban from the FB Management. If you ask and demand for their facebook email, that could earn you some outward rejection and decline for sure. You wouldn't want to add a friend that is exhibiting an erotic pose isn't it? Or your professional friends will have a different impression on you. =)

i. I want to meet people that has no traces whatsoever (hoping that you don't have them likewise)

j. No picture, no reply (mind posting your real pics instead?)

k. Emotional and romantic phrases for shout outs (the usual Romeo seeking for his own Romeo drama)

l. I'm broken-hearted, searching for the new one (I suggest that you "rest" first and enjoy being single or the next immediate one is again short-lived)

m. I'm a masseur at a cheap price including extras (shall I say prostitution instead?)

n. I am cute. (oh yes you are! kidding aside)

o. Shout outs written in a foreign language (are you in the right continent or country?)

p. read my profile for your questions (nothing sensible written)

q. I'm looking for friends only, I have a partner (your partner is here too)

r. I want fun (wanna watch cartoons instead?)

s. I want a partner to spend with the rest of my life (your mother?)

t. I am more than what you think (I can't think of any. really!)

u. I'm here just to observe (why then you sent me a private message?)

v. I have a place (so do I)

w. Orgy/Threesome Right Now! (The Brain is still the largest sex organ, so use it wisely!)

x. I want a hot guy only (perhaps he's cold)

y. I am simple but wild (a platypus?)

z. I'm looking for a serious relationship (seriously?)

So... what do we do now?

The Successful Way To Chat With BIs and Gays

Before the heydays of Yahoo Messenger and MIRC chat rooms, It made me wonder why people resort to online conversations.

The dawn of the INTERNET made the connection with people at a snap of a finger.

For first time chatters, experience could be fun if they know how to chat or could be a nightmare if they only reply with HIs or HELLOs.

I give you basic tips to nail down your chatmates for your bed later. =)

DON'T

1. Start Your Conversation With ASL Or NASL

This one could make or break a conversation depending on the mood of your chatmate. His willingness to share with you his location is fine, at times your chatmate isn't convenient of giving out his exact location or NAME at once. So be sensitive first.

2. Type... SEB?

Sex Eyeballs at the start of the conversation shows some desperation already. You seem so in a hurry to find a sex partner. Probably, he's just chatting in an INTERNET Cafe or he's about to leave or his time is up already. Have some fake decency first. LOL

3. Type Rude Comments About His Pictures or Profile

Come on! Be polite please. There are a lot of examples to say unpleasant things in a very nice way. If you think that he fooled you because you found out he's  just a freakin poser? Just put a smiley on the chat box then leave or ignore. No need to type that he's a loser or a fuckin poser only. Who knows? He might be much better than the picture you see and testing you only.

4. Be Judgmental For The Very First Time

Your chatmate might be very frank only with his replies to you, but this doesn't mean he's a rude person already for the rest of his life.

5. Be Overly Sensitive

If you were reared  by your parents as a cry baby, then the chatroom is not for you. Gays out there are mostly rude and competing like hell with one another just for some cheap hook ups. Your cultural orientation must be checked to understand the different kinds of races and individual differences.

6. Offer Your Webcam View At First If You Are Showing Your Face At Once

The proliferation of free software in the net to capture videos and images of you is no longer a passe. Worse if you are viewed jerking off with your face. Don't be surprised that your video can be seen at some porn sites and blogsites already and viewers feasting on your scandal. Know the person first or chat for a longer period if possible.

FACT. Guys who record you show their webcams as well. The only difference is... YOU ARE RECORDED BY THEM! And why would they tell you that you are recorded? So think again.

Engage in cam to cam only if you know him already or LOSE YOUR REPUTATION!

7. Brag Your Credentials If Not Asked

So what? Are you trying hard to sell yourself? You think you are the most beautiful or intelligent person he'd chat with? For all he cares.

8. Engage In Chatting If You Are Indeed Busy 

Regardless if you are chatting with multiple chatmates since you are popular, but do try to reply to your chatmate once in a while and say excuse me or sorry for being delayed.

9. Quit Promptly Or Leave Your Chats Unless You Are Disconnected.

This act is very, very rude. YOU JUST SIMPLY LEAVE AN IMPRESSION that you are UNEDUCATED and STUPID at the same time. Learn how to say goodbye or excuses in a nice way. Don't leave an impression that you're just "another" guy unworthy of their time.

10. If You Are In A Bad Mood

This will be reflected in every word you type. Sending negativities to your chatmate.

DO

1. Be Cheerful At First

Say a nice joke, phrase, quote or a very short story or topic as an ice breaker. 

2. Be Respectful And Polite

You might never know that your chatmate is highly educated than you. Regardless of his pictures or nasty shout outs in the chat room.

3. Praise Your Chatmate If You Read Or Saw Something Nice About Them.

Do this in a natural way.

4. Ask Necessary Things At First Only.

Be very discreet please. Every word you type for a new stranger might make or break your chat with him. REMEMBER THAT WORDS TYPED IN A CHATROOM DOESN'T EXPRESS EMOTIONS unlike when you are in a face to face chat. A smiley to add can help you with this.

5. Respond To Every Pertinent Question He Raises Before Raising A New Topic

It annoys me when a chatmate is showering me with questions ala FBI style.

Tell him direct that you will reply to his queries one at a time only and you expect to have the same information as well from him.

6. Be Attentive

You may have an idea when your chatmate is chatting with someone else or if he's busy by not replying to you quickly.

7. Be Professional

Regardless if you are chatting with someone who finished his grade school or high school only, This doesn't make you a person much better than him. Attitude and character counts more than a guy who is much schooled like you do. Be educated, not just learned.

8. Stop Being A Bitch

This is already given in the homosexual world. This can be best explained psychologically why it happens.

9. Be Culturally Aware

Every race or color of skin varies when it comes to conversations as well. Be careful in every comment you post or you might offend someone. If he raised the topic first then it's an opportune time for you to discuss.

10. Be Bubbly and A Positive Thinker

Even if it's only a chat. Your happy mood can be felt by your chatmate.

There are many more reasons that you can add in here. Some can be ridiculous or funny. But there are only two ways for you to be successful all the time. BE HAPPY and FRIENDLY. =)

How Big is BIG Indeed?

After meeting 17 men of various nationalities, I can say that I'm quite knowledgeable when it comes to dick sizes. =)

It is also not true that all self-declared homosexuals are experts when it comes to determining dick sizes.

The orientation of seeing, declaring or holding a phallus really varies.

Though others may agree that many Caucasians are well endowed, it is not also an established fact that they have the most numbers who are indeed well hung.

The African blacks mostly have huge phallus. Now, if they have reached continental America or Europe then you know your migration history very well.

It is also surprising to see that some Asians have huge cocks, and therefore being huge is not purely racial in nature.

Whenever I check some gay social networking sites, most of the guys there make me laugh. They declare themselves having L,XL, or XXL yet... When I see their phallus pictures I get dismayed and tumble in laughter. Is that what you call BIG?

I see some reasons to this... guys who has delusions of grandeur when it comes to their dick sizes.

Why is this?

Because...

1. They haven't seen much comparison yet.

2. They wanna fool prospective sex partners declaring having a BIG one. They thought that their "thing" and size declaration are sure fire marketable tools to find casual and abrupt sex partners. The size queens can sometimes be uneducated for the REAL BIG ONE and thus, agree at once that IT IS INDEED HUGE!

3. They have problems when it comes to looking and seeing at dimensions and shapes. They may be blinded in seeing the differences between 1D, 2D or 3D.

4. They can possibly be Myopic lookers too. Beware of webcams... camera lenses project it big only.

A vast experience helps when it comes to holding or sucking cocks, it matters too, believe me.

Your geographical location might be populated by small- cocked people so when you see a 5-Incher, you declare that it's humongous already.

Fine. Big cocks are indeed eye poppers. One look at a guy standing and holding his huge dong next to you in a urinal makes you shiver. You start wondering how it feels to touch his cock or the possibility of licking it if he will allow you. =)

We all know as well that they all taste the same no matter the size is. LOL. Why is it that every time we see a new cock, some if not most, are very curious to hold or touch it?

Does size matter?

YES and NO.

Yes, if you want a bigger challenge.

NO, if you are after for some serious relationships and that physical attributes are less important.

But come on! If there's a chance of winning a handsome guy with a huge cock, you go grab him isn't it? Some size queens disregard a handsome face, as long as he is humongous and size-gifted.

Human penis size is the measured length and width of the human penis. The most accurate measurement of the human penis comes from several measurements at different times, as there is natural variability in size due to arousal level, time of day, room temperature, frequency of sexual activity, and unreliability of the measurement methods.

A mean erect human penis is approximately 12.9–15.0 cm (5.1–5.9 in) in length.

Wiki adds...

Most of human penis growth happens between infancy and the age of five, and in five years after the onset of puberty. Age is not believed to negatively correlate with penis size, and studies have not found a relation between penis size and race.

There is evidence both for and against a link between penis size and the size of other body parts. Some environmental factors in addition to genetic, such as the presence of endocrine disruptors, can affect penis growth. An adult penis with an erect length of less than 7 cm or just over 2 inches but otherwise formed normally is referred to in a medical context as having the micropenis condition. Circumcised men are on average 8 millimeters shorter in terms of erect length compared to their intact counterparts.

Among gay men

A study undertaken at Utrecht University found that the majority of homosexual men in the study regarded a large penis as ideal, and having one was linked to self esteem. One study analyzing the self-reported Kinsey data set found that homosexual men had statistically larger penises than their heterosexual counterparts. One potential explanation given is a difference in the exposure to androgen hormones in the developing embryo. Evidence points towards men of each of these two orientations being equally likely to exaggerate the size of their penis.

Penis size and condom use

One Australian study of 184 men looked at penis length and circumference in relationship to condom breakage or slippage. 3,658 condoms were used. The study found that condoms, when used correctly, had a breakage rate of 1.34% and, of slippage, 2.05%, with a total failure rate of 3.39%. Penis length did not influence slippage, but penis circumference and broken condoms were strongly correlated, with larger sizes increasing the rate of breakage.

So how do you measure then?

Penis Health says...

The recommended measuring technique is the one known as "bone pressed flaccid/erect length". The reason why it is called thus is because the ruler is laid along the side of the penis and pressed a little into the pubic bone.

As you probably know already, the penis is a sensitive mass of tissue through which a lot of blood is circulated. It shrinks when cold and it expands a little in heat. Tight pants keep it shrunk, while the morning jog is likely to engorge it as it puts the entire cardiovascular system in motion.

This is why you should measure your length from the bone and not from the fat pad that covers it.

Still, you should keep in mind that any layer of fat added to the pad will cut into the penis size and make it look smaller.

This means that sometimes losing a bit of weight might make the difference between a successful penis measurement.

So remember this, be honest with yourself when measuring. Every centimeter counts to reach an inch.

Remember that 80s singer Carrie Lucas said? It's not what you got. It's how you use it. =)

So You Think You're Ready for A Relationship? Part Two

The Continuation...

4. Check Your Age Gap

I remember a lesson from my Psychology professor that a harmonious relationship will arise, be it among heteros or homos that will likely to be successful ONLY, if the range of your age gap falls within 5 years. Regardless that he or she is younger or older than you as long as the range falls within 5.

This would mean that the harmony of your likes and dislikes among things or tastes in clothing, music, food, movie, etc. would be narrower and acceptable for you to stay attracted or in-love longer than expected.

So... if you are 40 and your partner is only 18? It wont really last. This is due to the wide age gap that I was telling you. Just imagine, could you still dig the kind of clothes he wears or bars that the 18 year old love to cruise? The mature guy could understand the situation for the time being ONLY.

5. Establish Your Standards As Minimal As Possible

Who wouldn't fall nor get attracted with a very handsome creature? Who wouldn't want to acquire a partner who's got a lovely face nor a body moulded from a Greek god?

Some put on their profiles wanting a guy who's mentally gifted. Does that mean you're dumb? lolz

I know... there are times that we seek for partners with qualities that are not present among ourselves. You seek for an idol, you tend to fill an empty vacuum in your personality. Some are successful in finding one but mostly a failure.

I admit. I admire guys who are intelligent with numbers nor algebraic expressions even with radicals or calculus because these subjects are my waterloos and I feel so impatient in computations. But, I can discuss anything under the sun except Math ha ha. I'd rather fight pound for pound if you ask me to analyze nor compute. lolz

Like I've said in one of my articles here, when you are in love, standards don't matter. Our hearts don't think, they only feel.

6. Seek A Partner Only That Is Physically Suitable For You

Look at yourself again. Are you as handsome as him? Are you a head-turner too? If not, go get an average guy only. You want your eyes flooding in tears most of the time because you feel so insecure? You feel that this "cute" guy is enjoying your company ONLY because you treat him ALL THE TIME?

7. Do You Have Work Or A Stable Job?

Dating involves money. Gift-giving entails money. Dining nor eating in a fast food entails cost no matter how cheap as long as it's clean and edible. Sustaining a relationship involves money. You two don't have a place for your sex bout? Get ready with a less than a thousand bucks for a motel room. Yup, relationships reciprocates financial investments too.

8. Have You Decided To Be Gay For The Rest Of Your Life?

If you are seeking nor dreaming of a relationship to last longer, then start asking yourself if you can handle tough situations in a homosexual love. If you are just experimenting on the feeling of a homo love then you could be quite unfair to someone who's really into a gay serious relationship.

9. How Open Are You with Your Family and Friends?

This could be another tough issue if the partner you are seeking has personality problems with himself. If you are effeminate? It is less likely that you could get a partner that has no traces of homosexuality.

I admire gay couples that has no qualms anymore holding hands in public nor both of them are swaying their hips while walking or running.

If you still have personal issues with your bi or gay reputation among your family members nor with officemates and friends? I don't think you could be happy for a longer period of time with your partner.

10. Check Your Body Language and Mannerisms

How do you speak or converse with your crush? Does your eyes roll everytime you utter a word? How do you walk? How do you dress? Would you like to have a partner who's girlier than you? lolz

This talks about personal preferences. Did you notice some guys wanting to talk with you first on the phone to test how you speak before the meet up or sex bout? This could be the second step after assessing your dashing pictures to validate your level of homosexual tendencies.

So where do you find your ideal partner then? Believe me. They are EVERYWHERE. It is only a matter of time and luck. Though you may agree with me that a serious partner can't be found in a bar or in a bath house or in some gay network sites. You could give each other a chance, but be wary of course. Perform some rain checks first always!

You have noticed that your crush is away from the site momentarily because he found someone special. This doesn't mean that you aren't special as well. Perhaps, the guy he met has more suitable credentials that you do, FOR NOW and this could be for some physical or professional reasons.

Go ahead fall in love, don't avoid. When you fall, get ready to feel that hurt at the same time. You always learn from experiences and mistakes is it not? That'll make you wiser next time around.

We are in an imperfect world and so are you.

So You Think You're Ready for A Relationship?

I see a lot of gay guys wishing to have their special someones, some are even desperate posting their messengers and contact numbers on their profiles for an easy reach. What they are aren't aware of and realize are their safety and security nor wasting hundreds or thousands of money replying even to some prank trippers only.

While I understand that they wanted to feel to be so special and loved by someone. They are willing to gamble using their hard earned money for some senseless guys thus, ending to some added shame and disrespect for one's self more. Making them feel that they're the ugliest duck in this world.

How and where do we search the good guys then?

Before I answer this question, I want you to make a reflection of yourself.

Are you indeed ready?

Do you have what it takes to be a good lover?

What is your purpose of finding someone to love?

Or are you just looking for some temporary love? Worse, a sexual love only!

You can find in the net a lot of tips how to find lovers or partners. Others can be so ideal and believable. We even think that it's easier said than done. Some are even wishing for some recommendations for ideal partners. It could work for some but not for all.

So called standards can vary from one person to another.

Charles Darwin even theorized the principles of attraction. The survival of the fittest being is included in finding your would be partner. This might be complicated to some depending on your educational attainment and understanding.

Gay teens are mostly on the discovery stage. They thought that saying I Love You is that easy after a night of terrific sex. Only to find out later that his "partner" is fucking someone else.

Middle-aged men are not spared from these sad experiences. I can't blame some people why they don't believe in gay relationships anymore after dozens of heart aches and emotional breakdowns.

Is this the reason why our elders and experts tell us that gay happiness is only good when you're young and still beautiful? That our beautiful bodies and faces will soon fade and overtaken by the younger ones someday? That the time will come that you will use your money to buy some sex? What a bleak, dark and sad future for gays isn't it?

Answers to these questions can be very psychological nor philosophical that an average mind cannot fathom indeed.

1. Prepare yourself first.

Once you've reached your maturity nor done from playing around, I think it's time for you to make a self-reflection.

Look at the mirror. Are you still attractive? Do a lot of guys look at you still? If they take a second look at you then pray that you don't have a dirt on your face only. Which kind or level of people your physical beauty will attract most?

Don't dream of acquiring a very handsome guy if you aren't! Though this is possible if you have the money but then again, YOU ARE ONLY FOOLING YOURSELF FOR THE NTH TIME!

FACT. Usually, a guy who's lesser handsome than you will stare at you. Isn't it that you do that as well with guys prettier than you?

ANOTHER FACT. We should know if we are still pretty or not anymore. Don't believe your mom telling you that you still look good when the guys in public or elsewhere start to ignore you.

Solution? Take good care of yourself. Stop those bad habits. Smoking makes you look older same thing with alcohol that makes your skin appear dry.

Remember that attractions start with physical outlooks.

Be healthy and wise.

2. Look at your closet and dresser.

Do you have what it takes to be noticed? Are you still wearing the right kind of clothes like when you're younger? Or are they already a passe'?

Ask for second opinions from your friends. You think what you're wearing may not be as good anymore like you've thought of.

As we age, our tastes for fashion must adjust as well. You don't want to be tagged as a fashion victim right?

Wrinkles would definitely come. When you start smiling no matter how beautiful your teeth are can be a gruesome sight for most gay guys. That you are indeed just a thing of the past.

3. Get ready to accept guys/things as they are.

If you found someone that is so unstable emotionally nor a very active gay guy like you do, try creating a room for some patience and trust. You'll never know that you're the right one for him nor the kind of guy that he'd been waiting for so many years. Every guy you meet can be compared to a gift box filled with some surprises once you get to know him more.

to be continued....

Is There Such A Thing As A Bi/Gay Late Bloomer?

You think you're a man,
You are only a boy.
You think you're a man
You are only a toy.
You think you're a man
But you just couldn't see
You weren't man enough to satisfy me.

The Vaselines



Definition

A late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop. The term is used metaphorically to describe a child or adolescent who develops more slowly than others in their age group, but eventually catches up and in some cases overtakes their peers, or an adult whose talent or genius in a particular field only appears later in life than is normal - in some cases only in old age.

Let's try altering the definition making it gay-related. =)

A gay late bloomer is a person whose talents or capabilities are slow to develop in matters of homosexual attraction, caused by pressures from social peers, family orientation, professional reasons, religious involvement, sexual and cultural innuendos, and etc.

The following are the typical character traits of a gay late bloomer:

1. A guy who longed for several years touching another man's dick.

2. A guy who's contented by looking at his neighbor's dong in a urinal.

3. He thought that his high school English essay of raising his own family, fuck a girl or raise his own children was put to waste is only a big fat lie to himself.

4. A guy who was sexually abused in his grade school years by the same gender and still couldn't forget that it wasn't just a trauma but a contributing factor as well for being gay eventually.

5. A guy who felt something different whenever he sees a naked guy in a magazine or in the environment.

6. A guy whose eyes are more focused on a guy's dick than staring at a girl's pussy in a porn film.

7. A guy who's been denying for eons of years that he's not gay and will never ever be.

8. A guy who's homophobic and eludes his way from screaming fags and transvestites or transexuals.

9. A guy who married a woman nor raised his own children but suddenly met a guy and changed his sexual orientation totally.

10. A guy who gets furiously mad when teased as a faggot.

11. A guy who confided and realized one day that he's different.

12. A guy who gives you a million excuses by not partaking into cultural endeavors, yet artistically inclined and is very talented.

13. A guy who dated another guy with some private intimacy.

14. Suddenly realized that he can dance with the music of Cher or Lady Gaga.

15. You visualize from time to time if your favorite actor looks great when naked.

16. Sometimes fantasizes that you are Wonder Woman nor as sexy as Poison Ivy.

17. He's 30 years old and above already and still single? (though this age bracket may still vary)

18. You are vain. Cosmetically.

19. You know by heart the top designer brands and loves them.

20. You got curious about ManJam, Planet Romeo or Gay.com.

A late blooming adult is a person who does not discover their talents and abilities until later than normally expected. In certain cases retirement may lead to this discovery.

There are many theories of the way in which people develop proposed by authorities such as Urie Bronfenbrenner, Jerome Bruner, Erik Erikson, Jerome Kagan, Lawrence Kohlberg, Jean Piaget and Lev Vygotsky.

These may be referring to late bloomers for heterosexuals, but the hounding questions are...

What makes a heterosexual being gay eventually?

What are the causes or factors for being a homosexual?

My answer to this...

What are the causes and factors for being a heterosexual???

You don't get it?

I don't as well. =)

The Lures and Downsides of Threesomes and Orgies (Philippine Setting)

When a gay guy reaches his maturity in matters of sexcapades, invitations such as these makes him reflect a lot more, if he will let himself succumb nor feel weak to these kind of temptations.

The thought of engaging in a multitude of moaning men around you is just a terrific sight and makes our senses both external and internal tumble in excitement to join.

The following scenes are expected realities that happens in threesomes and orgies:

1. Do expect that in threesomes and orgies you will meet guys with body odors.

If you are VERY particular about smells -- the sulfuric breath of a gay swinger, the stinking armpit or anus, then a group sex is not for you. The stinking smells and exchange of saliva among mouths and dicks are expected.

2. Do expect that a participant in a group sex will surely be choosy. Most especially if you're not possessing a pretty face or a delicious body.

Don't feel bad if a guy suddenly rejects you. Just think that you're still lucky because you were invited. LOL. Just enjoy the sight then and be contented in jacking yourself off. LOL.

3. Do be careful of your valuables. Not all organizers of orgies are particular with safety.

BE MINDFUL that some gay guys REALLY ORGANIZE CRIMES or invite you just to be robbed. Since your flesh is weak, you end yourself as a victim by losing your valuables. SO THINK AGAIN!

4. High profile orgy organizers DO SCREEN participants.

They may involve gay actors, elite members of the society and politicians that would pay the price for your safety and discretion as well. If you squeal... then there's a great chance of losing your reputation and life in return very soon! Don't get yourself get involved in a local gay mafia. HOW TO JOIN? YOU MUST BE EXTRAORDINARILY BEAUTIFUL TO BE RECRUITED!

5. Small time orgy organizers WILL REQUIRE MINIMUM CREDENTIALS:

a. No to Effeminates. Keep on wishing. LOL
b. Be average looking at least.
c. A huge cock is a plus factor.
d. A Minimal Joining Fee - for your drinks or room rentals and whatsoever.
e. Indicate your bed role. - Top, Bottom or Versa.

6. Expect that in a threesome, there is a usual loser.

You are left behind if you are less attractive or not  great in bed.

7. Don't believe that if a couple invites you claiming that the couple is just a couple. They may be long time partners in a relationship, who's just exploring things with you to remove their boredom TEMPORARILY. Try to sense some air of jealousy in this case. And be careful, because you might spark a fight between the two. LOL.

8. Protect yourself no matter how handsome and delicious the guys are. Gay guys who  HAS THE MONEY and LOOKS ARE THE USUAL DISEASE CARRIERS since they have the ways and means most of the time.

Be health conscious. How many guys I've learned that they contracted those deadly diseases through orgies from both known and unknown guys??? From the prominent men in the society and elite gay circles. But of course, they could afford to travel around the world among the best gay capitals and bath houses of the world and ready to transfer their weird microorganisms with you. You can't monitor who transferred you the disease. Everyone fucked you. You sucked all of them. Now you regret after???

Go ahead guys, try it ONCE or NEVER after reading this article of mine. CURIOSITY USUALLY KILLS THE CAT. =)

SELF-DISCIPLINE and SELF-CONTROL is the ultimate key and wisdom for you here.