Everyone of us wanted to be loved, there is no doubt about that...
I myself was into 45 relationships already. One week, 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months to 7 months to 4 years...
How do you gauge if you are into a "serious relationship" already?
Here are some indicators that will help you, basing it from my experiences...
1. He can't get out of your mind every minute. But be careful... this could be an indication of lust only! Especially if you were able to see him on cam or looked at his yummy videos. This can fool YOU!
2. You "might" like the guy already, since you have been chatting for 5 hours or more on the first day you've chatted. This only proves that he's also interested with you.
3. He made himself invisible to his other chatmates (though you can't be so sure he did this just for you) He He He.
4. You two started talking about yourselves and your family, your ambitions and desired character of a would be partner.
5. You set a day for the two of you to meet. Whether to have sex or a cup of coffee.
6. You start exchanging messages on your cell phones non-stop daily.
7. "I Love You"... is suddenly sent to you and vice versa. But then again...true love takes time.
8. Your first day of sex was heavenly, and wouldn't want to separate on that evening as much as possible.
9. If gazing at the eyes of your partner was really different and you see Cloud 9, it must have been love...
10. You can't afford not to embrace or kiss your partner all the time and vice versa.
11. Guy you've met suddenly gave you something on your first day, probably his treasured thing he was wearing or any kind of surprise.
12. Both of you decided to delete or cancel your account in all of the gay sites you 2 are members. AGAIN... you can easily create a bogus membership anyway, anyday. Ha Ha.
13. TRUST is the key word. Though at present times, this is really tough, where access to all temptations are scattered. A potential sexmate is just a message or phone call away. Your guy is attractive? Expect that his mobile phone will keep on ringing or beeping.
14. RESPECT and LOVE YOURSELF! Even though right from the very start that entering into a relationship with gays can be very perilous. You have to keep your composure to love yourself still. As our elders tell us... Give love only 60% or 70% or worse 50%... Leave something for yourself. So it wouldn't hurt that much when it fails.
15. You two decided to live in together. Be careful. Living together hurts most. Curing your heartache is almost impossible. Again, TIME is the greatest healer of all.
16. You two started to introduce yourselves to your family and friends. This only means he's not ashamed of you but rather proud of you. If your partner can't do these 2 things of introducing you to either one of those... HE AIN'T THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU! Sad to say...
17. His siblings or parents start to call you or ask you things about your partner. This shows that there is already some air of acceptance for the two of you.
18. BIG PLUS. If you were invited to go out with his family. In my experience, I had a lover whose sister consulted me all the time about her business and etc. etc. His mom talked to me in private to take good care of his son. Not to mention that my ex boyfriend had a girfriend at the same time when we were together. Surprisingly... his family chose me than the girlfriend. LOL.
19. Jealousy is a normal occurrence in any relationship. Without this, the spices for love is reduced. Rather, being jealous strengthens the two of you more as long as it's healthy.
20. Your guy and you, stopped looking at other guys. Do you see his eyes still roaming around and flirting at your back? DROP HIM! Don't waste your time.
21. You are dating at least once a week, or twice a month. This is still good. But constant communication is A MUST! If you don't receive any replies from him, don't panic! He might be sick or any untoward incident happened. Again.. open your mind and be very understanding. You will know anyway if he starts to lie with you. Keep your eyes open. Use your intuition if he's telling the truth or not.
22. You two always ask for permissions on your daily activities if the other wouldn't be available. You both know your schedules about work and others.
23. Both of your eyes sparkle everytime you see each other. You lose this magic one day... then you may start wondering
24. Both of you have nothing to hide. His cell phone is turned off or in silent mode??? Hmm...
25. When both of you start checking your personal things (used undies, cell phone messages or logged calls, his bed sheets and pillows for some stains or smells unusual to you), you may start to cry.
26. He has the TIME to be spent with you and YOU are his PRIORITY most of the time.
27. Money should not be an issue. Spending should flow naturally without force. Though if money is the one working for the both of you to stay? IT IS NOT LOVE!!! Thus... it is ideal that you find a partner who has a source of income like you. If only one has the financial power, then love is being bought for confidence and sexual company ONLY.
Same sex relationship is triple the intensity than that of the heterosexuals. You don't commit yourself if you are not indeed READY!
You might be ready but your desired partner isn't. Obviously, he isn't the right one for you.
The truth is... you have set your own standards for your would be lovers but most often than not, this is not being strictly followed.
What standards??? If you seek for a partner that has the same credentials as you do or looks that you have. Call yourself lucky when you find one. REAL LOVE surpasses all standards. It's the MAGIC that you feel. Our hearts don't think. They ONLY FEEL.
My successful relationships were mostly with the guys below my standards. If only I could turn back the time to have them again.
When there's a Beginning there is absolutely an END to everything...
So treasure your moments while you two have each other.
You may start playing Roxette's... It Must Have Been Love... =)
I myself was into 45 relationships already. One week, 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months to 7 months to 4 years...
How do you gauge if you are into a "serious relationship" already?
Here are some indicators that will help you, basing it from my experiences...
1. He can't get out of your mind every minute. But be careful... this could be an indication of lust only! Especially if you were able to see him on cam or looked at his yummy videos. This can fool YOU!
2. You "might" like the guy already, since you have been chatting for 5 hours or more on the first day you've chatted. This only proves that he's also interested with you.
3. He made himself invisible to his other chatmates (though you can't be so sure he did this just for you) He He He.
4. You two started talking about yourselves and your family, your ambitions and desired character of a would be partner.
5. You set a day for the two of you to meet. Whether to have sex or a cup of coffee.
6. You start exchanging messages on your cell phones non-stop daily.
7. "I Love You"... is suddenly sent to you and vice versa. But then again...true love takes time.
8. Your first day of sex was heavenly, and wouldn't want to separate on that evening as much as possible.
9. If gazing at the eyes of your partner was really different and you see Cloud 9, it must have been love...
10. You can't afford not to embrace or kiss your partner all the time and vice versa.
11. Guy you've met suddenly gave you something on your first day, probably his treasured thing he was wearing or any kind of surprise.
12. Both of you decided to delete or cancel your account in all of the gay sites you 2 are members. AGAIN... you can easily create a bogus membership anyway, anyday. Ha Ha.
13. TRUST is the key word. Though at present times, this is really tough, where access to all temptations are scattered. A potential sexmate is just a message or phone call away. Your guy is attractive? Expect that his mobile phone will keep on ringing or beeping.
14. RESPECT and LOVE YOURSELF! Even though right from the very start that entering into a relationship with gays can be very perilous. You have to keep your composure to love yourself still. As our elders tell us... Give love only 60% or 70% or worse 50%... Leave something for yourself. So it wouldn't hurt that much when it fails.
15. You two decided to live in together. Be careful. Living together hurts most. Curing your heartache is almost impossible. Again, TIME is the greatest healer of all.
16. You two started to introduce yourselves to your family and friends. This only means he's not ashamed of you but rather proud of you. If your partner can't do these 2 things of introducing you to either one of those... HE AIN'T THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU! Sad to say...
17. His siblings or parents start to call you or ask you things about your partner. This shows that there is already some air of acceptance for the two of you.
18. BIG PLUS. If you were invited to go out with his family. In my experience, I had a lover whose sister consulted me all the time about her business and etc. etc. His mom talked to me in private to take good care of his son. Not to mention that my ex boyfriend had a girfriend at the same time when we were together. Surprisingly... his family chose me than the girlfriend. LOL.
19. Jealousy is a normal occurrence in any relationship. Without this, the spices for love is reduced. Rather, being jealous strengthens the two of you more as long as it's healthy.
20. Your guy and you, stopped looking at other guys. Do you see his eyes still roaming around and flirting at your back? DROP HIM! Don't waste your time.
21. You are dating at least once a week, or twice a month. This is still good. But constant communication is A MUST! If you don't receive any replies from him, don't panic! He might be sick or any untoward incident happened. Again.. open your mind and be very understanding. You will know anyway if he starts to lie with you. Keep your eyes open. Use your intuition if he's telling the truth or not.
22. You two always ask for permissions on your daily activities if the other wouldn't be available. You both know your schedules about work and others.
23. Both of your eyes sparkle everytime you see each other. You lose this magic one day... then you may start wondering
24. Both of you have nothing to hide. His cell phone is turned off or in silent mode??? Hmm...
25. When both of you start checking your personal things (used undies, cell phone messages or logged calls, his bed sheets and pillows for some stains or smells unusual to you), you may start to cry.
26. He has the TIME to be spent with you and YOU are his PRIORITY most of the time.
27. Money should not be an issue. Spending should flow naturally without force. Though if money is the one working for the both of you to stay? IT IS NOT LOVE!!! Thus... it is ideal that you find a partner who has a source of income like you. If only one has the financial power, then love is being bought for confidence and sexual company ONLY.
Same sex relationship is triple the intensity than that of the heterosexuals. You don't commit yourself if you are not indeed READY!
You might be ready but your desired partner isn't. Obviously, he isn't the right one for you.
The truth is... you have set your own standards for your would be lovers but most often than not, this is not being strictly followed.
What standards??? If you seek for a partner that has the same credentials as you do or looks that you have. Call yourself lucky when you find one. REAL LOVE surpasses all standards. It's the MAGIC that you feel. Our hearts don't think. They ONLY FEEL.
My successful relationships were mostly with the guys below my standards. If only I could turn back the time to have them again.
When there's a Beginning there is absolutely an END to everything...
So treasure your moments while you two have each other.
You may start playing Roxette's... It Must Have Been Love... =)
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